Friday, June 18, 2021

I am doing better

A lot of changes! I am changing A LOT after our first year of homeschooling. First, I read "Teaching from Rest" which is like a cool drink of water on a hot summer day. It was JUST what I needed and if you are homeschooling, go buy it now. It's not a thick book and can be easily finished in a week. Trust me, it is what you need. 

After reading it, and after thinking so much about our last year and what went "wrong," I started cutting things out. Next year will be homeschooling 2.0. Our motto will be peace, and our curriculum truth beauty and goodness. First I canceled my yoga. I can do yoga at home, outside in the spring/summer if I want to sweat. For those of you that don't know, I have been doing hot yoga at a hot yoga gym for the past two years to help me detox. It was wonderful and I love it and I will return, but right now I need to pare down and make our days simpler, and I don't have time to attend yoga 3x a week. It is what it is, and I am at peace with it. 

Next I looked critically at our week. We only have 5 days. I want two full stay at home days scheduled into our routine when we start school, and that leaves three days for outings. We have our co-op on one day and violin lessons on another, so those can be our go-out days. We can easily visit the park before violin or do a nature study after--this will have me going out less and leave more time to get things organized at home and cultivate our atmosphere. Well, that's four days---2 stay home, 1 co-op day and 1 violin lesson. That leaves one day for flexibility. I can either go out or stay home on this day, make it an errand day, or do whatever depending on what we need. 

I next fixed a loose schedule, with a morning time, our school (with a built in loop) all done before lunch. After lunch I have a quiet time for the kids planned where I can exercise, knit, or read before I have to start cooking dinner. This will help me not get burnt out. I don't know if we will stick to this schedule, but its helping me be organized. Anyone want a full post on our curriculum I have compiled? We were going to do Ambleside online, but Reuben isn't quite ready so we are waiting to start their "year 1" until next year. I'll write up a whole post about exactly what we are doing when if you want!

I feel better. Daily time with the Lord is healing to my soul. My lyme is in remission again and I am working on my fridge problems daily. My heart feels full and my cup runneth over. God has been so good this season, and summer so relaxing. 

Last week we had Reuben in his first day camp!! I really loved the camp when I read their website. It is all outdoors, nature style camp on 47 acres. However, I was shocked when the camp e-mailed that they would be requiring masks at all times except when eating, drinking, or in the pool. I thought it was a joke. It isn't. Reuben is 5, and in our state the mask mandate started at 10 and up, then was lowered to 5 and up sometime later (I can't remember exactly) but since May the mask mandate was dropped in our state. Throughout the whole pandemic I have never made him wear a mask. He tried it once or twice and hated it, so he was very stressed at the idea of wearing one at camp. I told him he didn't have to, but he is such a peacemaker he cannot fathom not following the rules (my other child is not so obliging) anyway, he has been going and made to wear a mask and I just felt awful about it. He said he had fun, except for the time they made him do yoga (hahaha) and he doesn't like the mask. His poor mask gets all wet because he's five and chews on it. And it has been in the 90s all week and I can't imagine how that has been for him. By the way, when I registered him for camp they had no mask mandate in our state so I didn't even think to worry about it!! I checked their website and there was nothing about wearing masks. The e-mail with the info about masks came two days before he was required to attend. I still think it's crazy. 

Becky and I got to spend a relaxing low key week together when Reuben was at camp, and I even had a few hours to myself when a friend watched her for me. It was wonderful and healing and I need to do it again next year.

I am thinking of cutting off all my hair. Should I? I don't know. Well, that is an update on my life. How are you?

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